when life changes

ever since the "prepare for marriage" happens, i found that i got lesser and lesser times for friends... feeling guilty as ever, i am now putting in effort to meet friends.. people whom i love and hang out with and people who care for me... when life changes from single to attached. when life changes from attached to be married, the amount of outings actually reduces. inverse relationship i believe.. lolz! see! i even have got an equation for that!

the recent planning in ROM is kinda driving me nuts. not exactly difficult but i just had planning. planning for timing, planning for events and planning for everyone. i am the kind who goes with the flow and to do things i wish. lucky for me, dear puts in effort to do part of the work. everything is done up except for the idiot meal part. my timing is 3.20pm... should be hi-tea to follow right? except not much places open for hi tea at late afternoon on a thursday.. boo! 

any help is appreciated ok? pls pls... suggestions!!! i dont think i am the capable kind of person who can plan the whole ROM myself... so pls...... ideas ok????? dim sum at late afternoon... tell me where... i am thinking of ;

-din tai feng

-crystal jade

-yum cha

we are just so lost!!!