2008

2008 is coming to an end. Now counting down to 2009.

A recap of what I had done in 2008 ;

- I got my ballot for yishun and waiting for my yishun flat to be ready.. hopefully it can be ready by 2010

- Got a notti boy xiong xiong! Thanks for coming to daddy, mummy and kor kor’s lives! As notti as you are, we love you to bits!

- Rainrain, daddy and mummy still have not forget you.. we still miss you and know you are well at the rainbow bridge

- I got married. Its tough, its not easy and its damn difficult. Hub, I promise to learn to adapt and lets try to brave through this together.

- Itchy got married! Finally she got married…! Lolz

- Made lotsa new friends!

- Got into my coy and I really love my coy and my job.. with its ups and downs, I still love the little mr and the little ms… lol

- Still in contact with my old pals as much as planes are flew often. I love you all still!

Seems like a long happening list!

Looking forward to 2009 to complete my acca! Hope all can be done and I can graduate in 2009!

Wish me luck!

hw irritating can u be?

u got the wii when u renew ur singnet contract.
u said its for me to play.
now every week , week in week out, you are bugging me
tell me there is a trade in for xbox. telling me u wan to sell it for xbox
i wanted to pay u for it
u dont want!
nothing is mine in ur damn house anyway
u wan to sell it den sell it lah!
i wan to buy from u and u dont want
den u keep bugging me weekly to sell it
what u wan!
fuck off lah!
i hate u!
so selfish!

5th day of christmas

damn bloody bz at work.... darn!

btw, itchy say the pre fab concrete is up! yipeeeeeeeeeeee lolz...

christmas days

christmas eve

spent the lovely eve at itchy's palace. arriving at 4 with my boys, food and lappie.. work my way thru xmas while itchy and huimin spent time cooking... maria arrive soon after and i had fun laughing at her while dx is barking at her!! lol.. facai parents and jo arrive next with huimin's hubby joining us while we were all laughing and enjoying the vidz. hub pop by!! surprise!!! did not know that he will turn up so he really caught me off guard! had rounds of food and our own count down!
can u believe that we actually left the place at 3.30 am??!

presents received -
Gunners jersey from itchy and L.. i love it sooo much that i change to it immediately and still wore it the next day.. lolz
pinkie watch from hub cos he claim that i got no pink bling watch... lol .. sweet leh
doggy treats from gift exchange and the boys had such great time feasting
doggy toys from a colleague cos she knew i will surely love it!
hand made bracelet from my manager

1st day of christmas

woke up late in the day feeling real tired and groggy ... hub pulled out a box of WOW boardgame and spent like 5 hrs explaining the details.. so tired that i fell asleep without playing much and hit off to lala land due to my horrible migraine...

2nd day of christmas

still woke up with my migraine with vomitting included. feeling damn suxy! i puke like 3 times and little ms mummy allows me to work from home. had the lappy with me so i guess it makes work alot easier. this is the best present from little ms mummy!
head off for a dinner celebration for MIL birthday.. hmmm i din eat alot though... guess the headache is still damn painful... came home a hit the table for the boardgame and guess wat? we slept at 4am and the game is still not completed!!!!!

3rd day of christmas

woke up throbbing again ... but had to wake up early to kaplan for my acca registration... the q is damn short lah.. saw allan and had fun disturbing him.. he said i am fat... sad... :( i hate allan!!
went off for korean food and got over stuff!
hub drove me over to carey's place and meeting them for the 1st time.. boy!!! they love hub!! too bad i cant stay long due to family mission...

my bro is set to marry ms cheena and a war had broke out at home!! my dad decided not to talk about it and to avoid the topic. mum hates the idea... so the whole house is icy cold...

went back to take a nap till 11pm and was drag up to complete the boardgame... we finish the game at 7am! finally!!


4th day of christmas

did not sleep much and woke up at noon.. bathe the boys and head off home..

all not well... the whole house is still in battle mode..

help........

holiday mood

i am in totaly holiday mood and i cant wait for tomorrow to come.. although i will be 1 family member short, but i am seriously happy cos i am spending it with my pals.. my frens and my boys!!

xoxo

its a season to be jolly...

i tink i gorge n drink too much this festive season... i am like drinking daily!!!

its a season to be jolly... drink drink drink drink drink... drink drink drink drinkkkkkk

tired sat!

work up damn early like 9am to feed the boys. went for coy dinner last night and almost got myself drunk! hub surprise by and pull me off and we decide to head off to mustafa at odd hours.we had prata before the mustafa trip so all the alcohol went digested.

damn i did not know that mustafa is sooo huge! its really fun! hub n the semi drunk me walked around.. i got cheap panties like 3.30 per panty.. all the lacy lacy ones.. hahaha hub got losta things and we decided that mustafa is our nxt stop for all shopping needs.

early in the morning, i woke up, still feeling seh but decided to feed the boys with their fave egg white for breakie...

hub woke up at noon and we decided to head off to amk hub to get our supply of gerber. got delayed due to the huge g2000 sale and hub decided to get his supply of working clothes instead. he complained that all his clothes sizes had to go up by a inch.. hahahaha.. i got 2 pants and hub bought them for me.. awwww
happily head to ntuc and yet we found no gerber!!!
made the made rush to rochor and got disappointed again. paya lebar also greet us with another round of disappointment.
sensing the panic and desperation that i have, hub drove me to giant at tampines. damn it damn it! no gerber again!!!! grrrr!
i decided to act smart and buy miniced chicken meat and carrots to make meat balls for the boys. we got sushi for dinner and got other food stuff... and we got a huge teddy bear for the boys as xmas present... something for them to hump lah....!

got home and the boys fought over the bear.. hahaha..
i went to make the chicken meat balls and pray hard that it works... took them downstairs and after a long long walk, we came up and i feed the boys meat balls + kibbles.. they love it! i amm so proud of myself! see! i need gerber no more...! boo!

head down for a run before our late dinner at 10.30pm.. now at 11.30...yawn... tink i am going for my ds before heading to bed...
long day tomorrow...

ranting nite

thurs -
meet the itchies for a nite of ranting at UP.. turns out that we got lotsa food.. lotsa drink and L gave E a surprise! so cute.. so ong lah.. i tot L was evil and sweet at the same time.. if i were itchy , i will screammmmmmm! lolz

hub came dwn and pick me up too... another nice one..

Fri-
going for coy dinner later and heading off for a major drinking session.. i tink i might jio J to pop dwn to mustafa with me cos being indian indian.. it might turn out fun!

xoxo...

marry wrong

i realise something.. i shld have just marry itchy
then

we can share bags
we can share fags
we can share housework
we can bathe the kids
we can take cab everyday
and lastly we can be fucking rich!

itchy, will be pls marry me?

rant rant rant

i seriously tink alof of things are full of crap!

all thanks to u and u acting smart, my hubby and my kids cannot celebrate xmas eve together. so u r happy? fuck off!

guess what, why dont the 3 of u just have a HUGE threesome.. happier wat.. den marry each other..

*smile serene smile... i am so fake*

worst xmas eve idea!

piang eh! hub got the cheek to say that we shld invite SIL ans her LJ face hubby to itchy house to celebrate xmas... kaoz...

why this kind of disgusting idea to ruin my xmas eve? i am totally against the idea and told hub that i can turn up at itchy's place alone with the boys and he can go threesome with her and her hub...

kaoz....

how i enjoyed my fri & sat

my period came on friday afternoon and i started feeling sick and cramp. the usual period pain.. arggghhh tinking that i am going to have my wkend ruin, i sulk and whine in pain thru the whole friday night.

hub was nice enough to bring me to watch BOLT, the cute dx look alike and we watch it at tampines cos they are showing the 3-d version. you need to wear this special glasses and when you take out the glasses, the screen is blur. but with the glasses on, everything look so 3-d! bolt pop out from the screen! wow... hub got addicted to 3-d shows now and demanded that we should watch 3-d shows from now onwards..
came home at midnight and whine the whole nite...

suppose to go to blue's house to celebrate her gals' barkday but being on heat, i decided that its hard for me to turn up. the pain is horrible and i lay in bed the whole day... woke up late in the evening and felt hungry so decided to meet itchy and family at urban pooch.. been there once to da bao and now going there to eat.. omg!!! it felt like home sia!!! like i had known raye for long time. we smoke, tok crap and smoke n eat n drink. idiot raye even threw my money into the plastic bag! but i really love that place so much!! the previous cafe that i went to felt so cafe-sih.. here, feels so much like home... just like the place soo much. think this is going to be another hang out joint! hui min n family pop by later but raye did not chase us out yet being with us till midnite. i had to leave cos i was feeling in damn bad pain lah.. we had the usual bitch talk and the men with their guys talk.. haha the usual gossips lah...

will be there again!

smoking ban extended

[[ FROM January 1, smokers will have to stub out in all hotel lobbies and 5 metres away from all entrances and exits of buildings.
The smoking ban will also cover almost all indoor places, with the inclusion of non-air-conditioned premises like lift lobbies, markets, multi-storey and basement carparks. Smoking will also be banned in outdoor areas like playgrounds and exercise areas.
The National Environment Agency (NEA) on Friday said it is widening the list of smoke-free places to keep the air cleaner and further protect the public from the harmful health effects of second-hand smoke. ]]

if you got the balls, ban all ciggies, take out the import of ciggies... den i quit smoking... dont give fuck up rules to act like a saint...

so fake!

a letter to itchy

Dear itchy,

i had only received your invitation yesterday. when the whole beautiful wedding is over.

i know you would be so pissed off on mon morning when it started to pour from 4am. i know how much you wish that the day would not start with the rain. but despite the rain, all sistas arrive on time and gave u the support that you need. we decide the pranks, got the jokes and had our hands dirty.

the guys arrive really late, sounding the whole estate with their air horn, you peep, we scream. almost forgetting that we had a mission to carry out.
we got the groom to do the most gayish things. humping ballons, peeling banana off the bros' waist with his mouth, guess ur lips and sing you a song. we thought we succeed, cheering for ourselves, only to realise some smart ass had climb in thru the window!

when the veil was lift, we were all so happy, for this beautiful couple had the prettiest smile. the groom looked like he brave the world to win your veil!

we took off to the groom's place with so many fiats hogging the road. all eyes were on you! you were so shy. yet i know they were looking at how pretty you are.

till the next stop at T3, we caught the attention of everyone. every other person was a pic of you! we even took pics at the handicap toilet! we toured the whole T3, taking snaps of pics and with eyes of envy at you. everyone look at you with the look of the beautiful bride.

leaving the place to yishun, i guess most of us knocked out, arriving at your house, we gorge, drink, smoke and gossip! all taking a rest from the early morning.

i know you felt bad, with so many tired faces, yet i have to tell you, all of us are too happy to feel tired. so proud to be involved in this wedding of yours and to be part of this. hence we decide to leave you with no food at all!

the furkids arrive later, with a whole house filled with noisy men, bitches and dogs, your yishun pad is sooo damn noisy! you are so tired, yet you still look stunning in your pretty make up. the one that makes you shine like a star.

some of us went to the fort gate 1st, some of us stayed back and we jus spilt the job without agreeing on anything. the chemistry that all of us have are so amazing. many of us meet for a few times, some not close, some like me, for the 1st time, yet for the love we have for you, we all share the chemistry, to make this the most prettiest wedding ever.

i know you tear over the drizzle that never seems to stop, yet i guess, the guy up there is telling you "if you can brave today, you can brave the rest of your life no matter how bad it is"

arriving there, all of us panic. we are uncertain over the walk in, the dress seems dirty and we duno when the march in is going to start, guests are all over the place and filled we people we dont know. yet, all goes well just by us screaming at each other. running places and checking the timing.. all of us wish for this to be the perfect march in. the one you wanted.

the march is amazing. bourbon walked in proud, you and L walking in blissful. a small hiccup did not ruin it at all. when the vows were made, i want to cry. although hearing it not the 1st time, but hearing it as a the way you both said it makes me so touched. so happy for the both of you.

the wedding went perfectly well. the wedding is beautiful and for the 1000th time, you look so pretty. all these goes well cos of your year long planning.

i did not do extra much in this as all it takes for me, it is you who make this possible so dont keep thanking me ok?

you both taught me so much. that how a couple should love and endure each other. seeing how much you both had went through makes me think that every shit i had went thru is so minor compared to yours.

i am still learning how to make it thru as a married couple and i know i can count on your advice when i need help.

i hope that this love will go on and on and may the love between you both be as beautiful as the wedding that you had.

love, Pig...

fake it...

I am back in here. I still don’t feel good. I still feel weird. May the lord help me ok?

I need alot of help, trust and faith for things to go back to the way it was. To me, it hell of a difficult thing to do. To have to have things the way it used to it.

I hate the part where the whole family tree has to be dug out during a fight. I hate the fact the kaypohs had to be involved when a couple fight.

Why the hell do they even bother to call my parents and to get involved with my quarrels and why the hell do they even bother to rush down to my house when in fact is something that is between us 2? Why are they so kaypoh?

Now seeing them, i don’t feel as good as i used to be. I don’t feel that they can be trusted anymore. They all seems fake to me and none of the warmth that i had felt before had exist.
To me, all are lies and fake behaviours. Till now, i cannot forget how the fuck he can get someone to rush cab down to my house and that someone really try to do that. I cannot forgive how someone come to the room and tell me loads and loads of craps of me not to miss my family, not to call my family, not to keep crawling back to my family. I seriously still bothered over it.
Tell me not to be so minor, tell me not to feel so pointless and i tell you i seriously cannot forget.

I can’t forget fake people and i hate fake people...

No wonder people say’ the more i know men, the more i love dogs.”

wedcited!

tomorrow is the wedding of the year.... The wedding of 2008. it brings a perfect closure to 2008 with a bash!

went over to itchy's hse to kaypoh and to boss her around... its really fun... to bitch , smoke and to boss her ... lolz..

took bling home and now i got 3 whities in the house. bling is so cute and sweet and make both my parents very protective over her. to me, she is like female ong lah.. so lovable! dx decide to turn evil and bite dt and try his skills at marking twice! i catch him almost doing it once and caught him doing it once! daamn that dx! itchy u wan a trade in? i take bling u take dx ok?

went to the doc to get med to delay my period... cross fingers... tml muz turn up well leh

somewhere i belong

i feel like an outsider in his house
i feel like an outside at my home

which is worse? feeling like u got no home? or having a home full of fake ppl?

fake fake fake

i hate fake ppl... who pretend to be nice and tell u something else.

i hate ppl who create dramas

i hate ppl who create a mountain out of a mole hill....

i hate people

are u dumb or what!

if i am telling u that i am in a meeting... i am in a meeting.. do not call me and ask me dumb things cos i am in a meeting!

complaint time

ya lah... the monthly grumbling of "oh where oh where has my period gone"

hope i wun see red on itchy's wedding...

feeling appreciated

its really important that whatever u do, someone in your life appreciates u.

in love, you will want your partner to..
in relationships, you will want your frens to... truely have a great sat amazing sat and made new frens! itchy... ur hens nite not wild enough.. kb.. u dun dress wild enough
in work, you will want your bosses to ... i got my appraisal done already and i am soo glad that i got appreciated at work !

i love my life!

ps. itchy... nxt time muz be more steady lehhhhh.. no more nxt time hor...

OT!

its 11pm and i just reach home and bathe!

super tired day today. now waiting for my hair to dry...

one of my bosses drop by from ID and decide to stop over for the wkend.. bad decision! bad decision for me. all lined up are meetings and meetings and dinner and drinking!

lucky i dress well today.. even ji told me that i look extra sexy today! hahaha i always love it when ji is in the office cos he always makes my day!

now is another probation period for me. my bosses actually come with new direction for me and even try to get me to meet up with clients. a brand new direction of work scope with i am still trying to adapt and working towards it.

the boss came down and after series of client meeting, he decide to hold meetings with the managers and another one with my manager and myself. lucky for me, mine came 1st so i get to head off at 6pm. since the meeting will take about 2 hrs or so, i went down to the gym for a quick work out and catch up with them at J bar after their dinner. the boss was cute! he ordered some salad and finger food for me knowing that i miss my dinner for the workout... lolz

managed to get my ass off the place after drinks and now waiting for my hair to dry...

yawn.. i am soo shag!!!

more bz bz bz day ahead tomorrow!

xoxo

all gear up for 2009!

its not even the end of 2008 and i am all planned for the year 2009

2 days week for ACCA level 3 papers
for the 1st half of the year, i will retake my handicap
for the 2nd half of the year, i will get my diving license
i will try to squeese in to get my driving license in 2009

i will have a busy 2009 and i am looking forward to that!

any takers?

beliefs

i tink i need a faith. i need to believe in a faith to bring me through these...

help me

worst sat ever!

I seriously got no idea at all how come kids appeal to people at all!
Having to force myself to the charity event at sentosa, while hub drove me there,
I felt so much like walking the green mile, walking to my death!
Hub and myself went to toast box for breakfast while waiting for the rest of the colleagues to appear. I dread dread dread!
Upon seeing the kids for 10 sec, i got cards fling at me!
After the 4d movie, i got drag by them!! ! imagine those kids can say things like “oi! I tink u very cute leh!” “oi~ u pretty hor!” wah liew, why cant they be slightly more gentle and say things like “jie jie.... u very pretty” they have to sound soooo chor lor! Damn it!
Having to suffer 4d show and lunch with them made me wish for freedom to come fast! Having 10 kids with 200 mouths talking at the same time cause me headache and pain! How i wish for time to fly by!
Finally the clock strike 1pm and i can smell freedom! To go back!! Head off straight to vivo and to the gym for a 2hr relaxation! Phew... i love the workout! But i hate the fact that we are outright visible to the public. Anyway, saw elvin ng! He is sooo hot hot hot! Tall and cute! I look my worse! Damn it!
There, my sat is ruined..

new look!

i tink i might not go into bangs after all!

ji n R told me that i look sexier with the top knot.... to go with my smokey eyes make up look. this is the new look that i am trying to adapt now...

in deperate need to look hot and sexy....

xoxo

santa babies no more!

the dress is soooo freaking ugly!!! after trying, fitting and considering, we decided to be santa babies no more... ekkks! too ugly leh.. the dresses are too big for us! booo! no more mooolah...

santa baby!

i tink i am going to be santarina at vivo after the guy agree to put vern n me together... i am going to act 21 and act xmm!

santa baby, here i come... lolz

i love batam

i am jus too lazy to update my batam trip

so the whole trip we ;

overeat, over enjoy, over fun, oversmoke, over poo

under rot, under shop,

lolz

xoxo

trying... and still trying...

i am still trying to be supportive. i am really trying..

pending ACCA subjects

i had better note down my pending acca subjects to take

P6 Advanced Taxation ATX
P3 Business Analysis BA
P2 Corporate Reporting CR
P1 Professional Accountant PA
or
P4 Advanced Financial Management AFM

damn it!

lash me!

i have not got time to update my best trip , my batam trip...!

but i jus did this, not in batam, but in bedok... lolz

addicted to run

i am totally addicted to it!!

i run every night for 45 mins and for today, i hit the gym and ran for like 1.5 hrs!

shiok shiok shiok!!!

targetting to finish standchart run 10km in 2009!

frenship...

itchy revealed the news to me that myself, her and jo, we had known each other for a freaking disgusting 3 yrs by Mar 09. eeks! thats a long long time for our friendship.
we had been thru
the bf stage,
the marriage stage,
the have dogs stage,
having 1 dog,
having more than 1 dogs
dogs getting sick
moving houses
change of vehicles

i tink fate has it that i had to continue to itchy with itchy for a long long time cos even my 1st ballot for hdb, we managed to get lucky and got yishun. 2 streets away from itchy. its the 1st time when we decided to try for a ballot and i cant believe that we gotten the ballot so easily. among the 3000+ applicants, we get to live so near each other! crazy fate!
still remember APC, various gatherings, groomers, barkdays, skcs, ktvs and smoking breaks.... more to come..

and BATAM here we come!!! we are even having our 1st stamping of passports together!

awwww....... so awwwww

there are forums peeps where u know them and turn out to be someone else or just being hi-bye.
for some, frenship remains...

for some, we dont contact daily yet when i need help or to rant, i noe i can count on u... nana... u are the great one!

i know kb and vern thru another forum and they see me going thru the various stage of my life too... these are the 2 young gals i know that in the end, linked me to my longest pal, fen.. wahaha spore is so damn small...

there are those school frens whom i still hang out with, and these are the frens who watch me grow... from the spoilt brat to the auntie i become...

thank you ladies...

home sweet home

waiting for pick up back to my home sweet home..

i need hugs from mummy!! mummy i love uuuuu

another 2 hrs to go yet it seems so long till i can see them.. having a 3D2N stay back home.. check in time 2pm

wahahhaha

go US go!

seeing obama winning the landslide votes at the election, i felt truely happy for the US citizens who make their say.i feel happy for obama for winning the hearts of the US. i feel happy for the change that is about to take place.not sure if the changes will be good or not. and certainly not sure if obama can live up to his words, but an important statement had been made.the US wants a change and they did it!

some local paper asked if we are ready for a non-chinese PM, to me, its not the race that matter here. its the change that we are planning to see.obama speaks for the weak. will we have the luxury of having a change? not of a difference race but of a different leadership group?
till this day, i am still waiting for the change to happen. a change not to happen for granted but a change that will occur because we want the change.for many living here, we spoke like we were being forced for not having the change, in reality, can we really vote for the change? can we speak our mind and not to fear the Biggies?

see! its comes!

see i told u! my period reads my blog! it came!!! i tink gong xi fa cai's mama's period also read my blog.. wahahaha

so i will start blogging about my period every mth end so that it will come on time...

now back to cuddling my dt and sleep....

i tink i am a crybaby

today is mc day 3. wanted to rewatch 10 promises to my dog. its onli 30mins into the show and i feel tat i wanna cry... damn it!

5 days MC

nothing to be envy about! people are filled with envy when they hear about my 5 days official leave but today is day 2 and i am feeling terrible!

my face is now 2 to 3 times my usual face size.. imagine hw funny i look!
it hurts to chew and to drink. so much so that i need a straw. seriously i tink i might have lose 1 kg per day...

the most painful part of it is not the pain or the liquid diet. its not being able to kiss the boys. how i take it for granted daily for the moring kisses, the nite kisses and the kisses kisses. now not being able to kiss them, its hurts! both boys keep wanting to kiss me yet i had to push them away! i so much wanted them to ong lah me! i guess they kind know that mummy is sick so being extra manja back to me.. i have 2 boys sleeping beside me now with one on my lap and the other on the side of my lap. smelling them, i feel so helpless not being able to be close to them.

lucky for me, hb took a day or 2 off from work to take care of me. i just feel like crying! it felt so horrible that i just brust out crying many times! lucky for me, hb is right beside me now and giving me herbal tea and cooking me porridge....

awwww so blissful...

mumble mumble mumble

[ Mumps or epidemic parotitis is a viral disease of the human species. The word "mumps" originally meant "to mumble", and came to be applied to the disease because of the side effects it causes. Prior to the development of vaccination and the introduction of a vaccine, it was a common childhood disease worldwide, and is still a significant threat to health in the third world.[1]
Painful swelling of the salivary glands (classically the parotid gland) is the most typical presentation.[2] Painful testicular swelling and rash may also occur. The symptoms are generally not severe in children. In teenage males and men, complications such as infertility or subfertility are more common, although still rare in absolute terms.[3],[4],[5] The disease is generally self-limited, running its course before receding, with no specific treatment apart from controlling the symptoms with painkillers. ]

yes yes yes... i am suffering from mumps. what appear to be a toothache / gum infection turn out to be mumps! down with mc for 5 days and seriously it no fun at all!

dog show Alone!

HB drove us to the skc show. having down with a bad flu, he decided he would be the driver this time instead. so we rush down to cheeer for jo n elaine.. for puggy n dou! wahaha the fun starts when benben walk the ring.... dou, being the niao dou, still bear the angry against benben and keep wanting to jump at him! lolz.

benben being the usual winner, win... but good job for ah dou n puggy! u boys rocks! muz take part more often leh...

me being messy and forgetful without hb, i almost forget dx, ciggie, water bottle... hahahaha had to go in n out of expo many many times!

dx became a showcase with a fren's niece wanting to buy him from me! cute gal!!

both boys had been photographed a few times sia! wow.... show off mummy! hahaha

glad to meet the usual frens and some that i see once every purple moon like april... lolz... april n dx had fun playing and having fun being wei xiao bao... having both april n gong xi by his side!

now boys ended up snoring on top of each other...

breakway here we come!

planned a get a way at batam. with help from gilbert, we got a steal!!

15 nov to 16 nov...

itchies.... go batam go!! cant wait leh!

the mthly complain

i seriously tink my period is a follower of my blog. everytime i complain about my period not coming or on the way, my period comes.

so here i am, i am suffering from PMS. i am emo, having headache and bloated.

damn it.. where is my period

did i rush into things

wondering if i did rush into things...

i duno i duno and i duno...

my day!

Run boys Run!
bring the boys for a walk for 20 mins. with the new bought leash, i managed to get the 2 boys to walk together. dx pulling dt and dt stopping dx. the whole work out too us 20 mins and got all 3 of us shag and tired.

seriously we should do it more!

after the 20mins run with the boys, i went up, change a new pair of shoes and head off for another 30 mins of run!

shag shag shag!!! i am in serious lack of energy! wonder if i can withstand the 2 hrs gym work out tomorrow....

Bass! that mother Chucker!

for those that had been wondering about my MSN nick.. yes... i tink i am falling for Chuck Bass! the mother Chucker make me swooon over him many times in gossip girl! xoxo...

J got addicted to this show too! and J tink S is damn hot... and the S is not me... booo!



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EI2afDGo8m8

tuesday blue

my body is telling me that i should not come to work

-i am LS-ing from too much food
-i am feeling stuffy
-i need sleep
-i am bloated from my otw period
-i had nitemare last nite (dun ask me wat it is... forget liao..)

i need to be at home instead of work...

toothpaste from china

toothpaste from china! K knows that he cant get me fake bag... so he got me fake toothpaste!

hahaha cute toilet paper holder rite??

finally! the kiang kiang kiang is on the way

the pic is the status of our yishun place.... work has been done! this is taken by a fren in our yishun facebook group....

cross fingers and hope we can get the keys soon!

1 room for us

1 room for gaming

1 room for dt dx! hahahah

gone sat gone

i seriously tink i see itchy and elaine more than i see my brothers. obviously i spend other sat at itchy's place. hb says that we seems to be getting ourselves farmilar with yishun more and more.

hb is always pai sey about his small avante hence feels damn pai sey to send ppl. today, i decided to wipe out his pai sey-ness and send ah dou back. hb still asked me "car so small... duno they mind or not leh..." anyway, their house actually damn near nia lah... so they dun mind being packed in the small pathetic car... hb was still worried that they mind and i had to assured him that they dont... zzzzzz men n ego.. kaoz...

Bag Expose!

i am sick and at home... so i decided to do a bag expose and see how come my bag is always so heavy..




-the background is my classic gucci tote (typical A4) and made of leather.. my fave tote! HB actually asked me how come i need 2 tote. typically, i need a leather one from mon to thurs and a canvas one from fri to sun... a girl can nv have too many tote!
-cutesy pink make up pouch from taiwan by C its sooo bright and me!
-blue harrods pouch by Fen where i pack my med and lip gloss and pantry liner
-red pouch where my ipod is packed in
-office scan card with the F1 lanyard
-mphosis tissue pouch
-motorola gold phone
-lv key pouch where i got so many keys!
-lv card holder which i dont usually use...
-coach wristlet where my notes and coins sit
-gucci ciggie pouch where i pack cheapo ciggie ..
-Esprit umbrella and i love the GOLD!

my fave? the umbrella.... i love GOLD! lolz

i love my inlaws

i tink we are the onli persons who really love my in laws..

my dx has ROMed.... awwww

dx with bling bling.. awww

C from taiwan with love (and goodies!)

fetch C back from taipei... she went honeymoon there becos her hb had to had meetings there... so she tag along for the ride and come back with loads and loads of goodies!

-treats for the kids
-toys for the kids
-cute cute panda suits for the kids
-tops for me
-heels for me
-cute contact lens casing for me
-make up pouch for me
-coin pouch for me

-1 tee shirt for hb

hahahahah

i love love today! so much new things!

love my B... for the G

B came back from spain... barcelona to be extact and she help me to buy G.... Gucci!!!
ooooo i am such a brand whore...



the boxes and the bags...
xiong xiong loves gucci
see! ciggie pouch
xiong xiong the gucci dog
my tote!

just boring me

i am soo bo liao...

1. What time did you get up this morning?
9.30am

2. Diamonds or pearls?
diamonds

3. What was the last film you saw at the cinema?
wall-eeee

4. What is your favorite TV show?
any CW shows... gossip girls, grey's antomy

5. What do you usually have for breakfast?
toast

6. What is your middle name?
S

7. What food do you dislike?
frogs

8. What is your favorite CD at the moment?
top 100 hits

9. What kind of car do you drive?
no license

10. Favorite sandwich?
cold cut trio

11. What characteristic do you despise?
bossy bitches who act mama-ish

12: Favorite item of clothing.
tanks and shorts

13. If you could go anywhere in the world on vacation?
rome!

14. Are you an organized person?
totally!

15: Where would you retire to?
australia. i can retire with itchy and the kids

16: What was your most recent memorable birthday?
last last year... when i got dead drunk and i dont remember how i get home

17. What are you going to do when you finish this?
gai gai with HB and the kids to PMDR to get stuff

18. Furthest place you are sending this?
who ever reads

19. Person you expect to send it back first?
no one...

20. When is your birthday?
jun 5

21.What is your shoe size?
5 / 36

22. Who was the last person you spoke to on the phone?
B, asking me what i wan from shanghai

23. How many Pets?
2 dogs

24 Any new and exciting news?
drink , gaming... boring!!! ask me out!

25. What did you want to be when you were little?
DJ! and Vet

26. How are you today?
sianz.. tomorrow monday leh

27: Favorite flower?
sunflowers

28. What are you listening to right now?
ipod podcast

29. What is a day on the calendar you are looking forward to?
end of oct... deadlines complete

30. What was the last thing you ate?
fishball noodles without noodles

31. Do you wish on stars?
ehhhh... nope..

32. If you were a crayon, what colour would you be?
Red!

35. Favorite soft drink:
any tea series

36. Favorite restaurant?
hanabi

37. Hair color?
black

38. What was your favorite toy as a child?
transformer

39. Summer or Winter?
summer!

41. Chocolate or Vanilla?
chocolate anytime!

42. Coffee or tea ?
coffee! i will die without coffee

43. Do you want your friends answer?
yes

44. When was the last time you cried?
sep 04.. my rom.. i am finished

45. What is under your bed?
the kids' toys

46. What did you do last night?
play warhammer and lvl up den go supper

47. What are you afraid of?
in debts

48. Salty or sweet?
sweet sweet sweet

49.many keys on your key ring?
his hse keys, office keys and my hse keys

50. How many years at your current job?
8 mths!

51. Favorite day of the week?
fri and sat

52. Do you make friends easily?
i hope so

53. Do you like finding out all this stuff about your friends?
yes! i am sooo kaypoh!

co0l z0ne

i seriously think that i am hanging out with the boys too much.



i hate to pretend to not to be on talking terms to them... but...



just dont ask me personal things but everyone... i dun wish to tell.. so dont tell me secrets...





xoxo

part time? i doubt so

was reading jo's blog and it seems that not jus her but a few of my many friends do not wish to climb the corporate ladder and most would have the intention, if possible, to be stay home mums or to work part time.

many wishes well for their husbands, for the men to climb the corporate ladder and for them to bring the bread home.

can i do that? i doubt so. perhaps more ego than other women frens i have? i cant stand not working. i cant stand being stagnant at the corporate leader. i cant stand being a housewife i guess. i love the cosmo of the colorful world too much.

more work more money more lv... hahhaha i am sooo shallow

Too little time

I had been really busy at work lately. So busy that by the time I crawl back home, I just want to cuddle in bed with DT and a book. (DX still any old how pee so no bed bed for him)

No scandals to my life, boring as white paper at the fax machine.. so blah.

The only happening things that happen daily are meetings and meetings and meetings. I think my bosses got so sick of seeing me.

Oh ya! J asked me out for drinking session. They kinda want to hang out at zouk. After the hangover on sun, I wonder if I can hang on to another cosmo.


Till then, xoxo

notti boys wans to go gai gai

while me shopping with bestie fen.... hub was at home tending to the kids... dx actually (i got no bloody idea how) pee all over his body and hub had to shower him!

i went ahead, shopping with fen and giving her views on her bands and me buying alot alot of clothes! i tink fen had picked the bands sooo suitable for her! its jus so her lo...

went to forever 21 and i picked out 1 office top and 2 singlets. i tink their sizes suxs cos even i can wear S! head dwn to nichii for another round of shopping where i got 3 more tops... hahaha i love to get clothes!!!!

hub was nice enuff to pop by and to meet fen as she claimed that she had not seen him yet and she do not wish to only meet him during HER wedding
idiot!

oooo they dropped us a really pretty album... i swooon over it when i reopen the present at home, so afraid that i was going to ruin it when i open it at vivo.

heading back home, dt had to poo all over his butt which resulted in me having to bathe him.

guess they are smart to tell us that " daddy mummy, bring us go gai gai on sun to turf city... dun go grooming"

diet time

my mum says i am getting too fat for my own good.

its either lippo or diet she says

so she plan my meals for me

Sun to thurs , breakfast (bread) lunch and dinner (fish soup)
Fri, breakfast (bread) lunch (soup) and dinner (things that she cook)
Sat,i get the right to gorge

eeekks

what to do... :(

it comes!

yes yes... my period comes after my nagging. i seriously tink my period reads my blog. everything i complain about it not coming in my blog, it mysteriously come with a day or 2.. maybe i should make it a regular complain so that my period can come on time...

before the red hits me, i got the chance to meet with the itchiest for partyworld session and bitching. jus like the meet up of sex and the city where 4 women tok about men n dirty jokes. lolz.

gals! we shld do this more often u know?

had to end the night early due to the bad cramp and had to miss st james.. boooo!!!!

life-less

had been feeling so bored lately.

i tink its due to my period being lost again.. yes AGAIN... wonder where?

i am just sooo sianz!

so hence, i am planning lotsa outings... so sorry to DT and DX ok?

xoxo

after the whole hype on Gossip Girl, i decided to see that show.. finally. half an ep and I am so hooked.

now J calls me S.

till then,

xoxo

fly by!

i had been totally busy that i got no time for blogging.. hate me!

in summary, this is what is happening ->

-got my amazing dvd and photos for ROM frm itchy and L... damn i am fat! pics up in facebook and dvd in my safekeeping and had been viewing it for the 100th times... my family love love them!

- currently lvl 10 (80%) in my disciple of khaine... still pvp-ing to learn my skills.. i can nv understand how can ppl deal 10k of damage at lvl 9... i tink i suxs!

-there will be recreation for fun n play on 3 oct! wonder wat is in stall for us to play? dear complained that our coy pay us for us to play... hmph!

-going to F1 this fri... my sweet manager got me grandstand tickets

-going to Spore flyer this sun... catch F1 and to use my coy free spore flyer tickets

-oooo.. i am changing my image... esp at work.. i like my glasses look now... it makes me look smarter

hmmm what have i miss???

restless again n again

after a heavy lunch at the soup spoon... i am sooo sleepy! i had half of the regular mushroom soup.. heavy rite?



now back... mind wondering... wonder wonder wonder..



should i go for plastic surgery?

restless again

see! i am in such restless mood...

did a search on my name in google and there are lotsa people of my name! such common name.. so boring.. booo!

ever since i started in this r/s i had not been to the clubbing scene! beside the usual drinking at dempsey.. no more clubbing.. i am kinda having the clubbing itch.. anyone to scratch me?

restless

thats the feeling that i had been having for the last 1 week. wonder why... maybe its due to the lack of gym work out... doc had asked me to avoid gym till mon.. claiming that i need time to recover from my oh-so-pathetic state after coming home from bintan.

since its friday and all the big shots are not in spore, i am feeling kinda relax....

had the wkend planned already.

Fri - warhammer

Sat - warhammer, urban poouch to pick up food , head to itchy hse for my ROM vidz and photos

Sun - warhammer, head back home for mummy's cooking..

Pa game liao!

hb just helpped me to lay his hands on the release of warhammer! after seeing him play for 3 days without me... i am soooo itching to lay my hands on the game! already planned wat i wanna play already!

come come healer... come...

MIL...

while everyone i know complain about their mil.. i tink i should be fair and comment on mine.

i tink she is damn nice...
how many brew herbal tea for u when u are having sore throat
buy u breakfast
sometime cook you dinner
cook for you when hungry
clear pee n poo for ur boys
make u cup jelly just because u like it

hmmm i really tink she is nice.. so i better try to be a nice dil

new toys!!!

now that i had visited the doc, no i am not preggy! just that the 2 of us caught bugs in bintan so we both came back sick...

with a few new toys on hand, had the weekend busy with lots and lots of game play

new tv series - 溏心風暴之家好月圓 this how got me hook damn bad...

new anime - Hitman reborn!! ciaossu!! so cute leh

new mnorpg - warhammer!!! i got so hook to this game that i almost forget to sleep.. and just for this game, i ...

bought a new lappy! - Acer Aspire 5930g! no need me to tell u the specs. it has got the best gaming specs in all laptops! Intel® Core™2 Duo processor T9400/P9500 (6 MB L2 cache, 2.53 GHz, 1066 MHz FSB, 35 W/25 W), T9600,4 GB ram, NVIDIA® GeForce® 9600M GT with up to 23038 MB of TurboCache™ ... tell me... how not to love this 15.4" baby! got it at a steal at Harvey at $2,498.

went up to challenger and view the same unit, the guy who claimed to be an acer sales rep did not know what he is selling. harvey is giving a 400 bucks off from the retail of 2898 and he did not know.. he could not tell us what comes with it and he did not offer us option to purchase a 20" lcd monitor at 99 bucks. there was nothing but attitude! i seriously tink challenger got the worst sales rep in the whole IT sector in spore. nothing about it is pleasing. the sales do not know their products and are sooo unhelpful! however, the trip to harvey boasted another kind of sales. good attitude and lotsa freebies... free oem office, option to purchase the lcd monitor, 8gb thumb drive, 1 yr norton.. 3 yrs warranty... we came out of funan happy!

went back with my new toy to enjoy my other toys... woohoo! i love the power...

i like i will hug my aspire to sleep... lol

from itchy's blog

1. He's sitting in front of the TV, what is on the screen?
Sports channel, surfing for either tennis or soccer if not discovery

2. You're out to eat; what kind of dressing does he get on his salad?
what ever they serve and he will ask for xtra

3. What's one food he doesn't like?
fats in meat and weird organs

4. You go out to the bar. What does he order?
Beer.. any fancy beer

5. Where did he go to high school?
hmmmm.... no high school

6. What size shoe does he wear?
size 8

7. If he was to collect anything, what would it be?
Games games and more games

8. What is his favorite type of sandwich?
anything i like...

9. What would this person eat every day if he could?
chocolate!

10. What is his favourite cereal?
cococrunch

11. What would he never wear?
skirts / dresses

12. What is his favourite sports team?
Inter milan and liverpool

13. Who will he vote for?
he had not got the chance to

14. Who is his best friend?
his monitor, CPU and mouse

15. What is something you do that he wishes you wouldn't do?
Being spoilt (but he made me spoilt)

16. How many cities/countries has he lived in?
Singapore.

17. What is his heritage?
Teochew dad and Vietnam mum

18. You bake him a cake for his birthday; what kind of cake?
hahaha in his dreams... but he would love a chocolate cake...

19. Did he play sports in high school?
no high school.. how to play sports in high school

20. What could he spend hours doing?
Gaming gaming and MORE gaming

sick... giddy

been feeling giddy ever since i came back from bitan. wonder if its the weather or the food of the essential oil we had been burning...

04 Sep 2008 - the day my status change

I am sooo late in blogging! Been hooked on the tvb mooncake show so much that thats the 1st thing on my mind when I head home. Needless to say, I nv pluck the energy to blog lo. Lazy me!

04 Sep 08
Should be the most memorable day of my life. Yes! Me getting married. After the short courtship, the short pak tor, the shocking proposal, I am married. DT and DX officially got daddy! Lolz. Unlike other brides who can’t sleep the day before, I was still watching tvb online and KO only at about 1am ish. No I did not feel nervous at all! Woke up at about 9plus where DT DX came up to me after their long walk with my mum. Both boys kissing me to wake me up and feeling helpless by the kisses, I decide to crawl up. Washed up and more eps of tvb! Itchy came at 1055 and we took 5.1st time in my whole life that I showed her my disgusting face with no make up on. I look damn damn damn ugly lah. Its pouring, pouring so bad and I think to myself that we will have to go thru this in the rain. Damn it! Ferene pop by shortly after and its like instant click! She is sooo pretty! So cute! I would have fallen in love with her anytime! We headed upstairs for my major change over. While Ferene make up for mummy, I change into my white and red dresses for them to choose from. In the end, we decided to go for the chilli red dress. Itchy was complaining how ugly I make the red dress look when i took pics of it. Wahahaha

The whole make up was fun! Ferene makes my mum look like my step mother. Mummy look way younger and HOT HOT HOT! DX and DT sulking and me acting busy. In the end, ferene makes me so pretty! I never have any major make up done before and wow! She is damn good! Can make my big face look so pretty!!!!

We had fun fooling around, take vidz and pics. Dad and mum look so good together and they look just married. I never knew my bros look so cute.. both of them look damn handsome leh... and well... cheena gals jus look... the usual..

I tink dt whisper something to dx so the 2 of them plan to stand guarding the door while we are heading out. Makes me feel kinda sad. Its like ditching my 2 fave boys. Took me alot alot alot of ong lahs to get them into the room... jus cant stand not having them by my side i guess.
It was the journey in the fiat that gave me cold feet , cold hands and caterpillars in my stomach. Not the usual butterflies but caterpillars!!! That is how scary I feel. I wanna cry and i wanna head back home! Itchy had to switch on hokkien songs to calm me down. It worked for a min only. Dear reach the ROM way too early and kept calling and bugging me. Damn~! Got me more nervous instead. Kept calling don’t help at all! The more he call, the more i want to head home.. i think i turned green.

Took me awhile to head to ROM and spot dear. He look kinda cute ( i think) in his coat and shirt combi. He handed me my bouquet and i think its beautiful. Everything is a blur. I was even too nervous to smoke! Everything was still a blur to today. I tink dear keep saying I DO... i keep feeling gigglish... i think i keep laughing and smiling. I seriously cant remember what happen.
When the whole drama was finished, we head to legends gardens for a early dinner. They are really nice enough to serve us at 4.30 and giving us the whole restaurant to ourselves. The peeps there are prompt and serve the oldies tea. We headed out for 5 and Robert and Itchy then help us in our major photo taking.

Headed back to the restaurant and dear and myself had to sit at the old people table. Its sooo tense lah! I don’t know what to say and afraid to say the wrong thing. Everyone so fake and PR lah. I keep rolling eyes at itchy and went for toilet breaks and take 5 breaks. Easier i guess. At least i have someone to roll my eyes to! If she is not there, trust me, i might have burst into tears already.

The peeps at the restaurant are like way cool! The dishes are nicer than we expect, they serve us well and keep giving us tea and water. No black faces and no complain! One of the few really cool restaurant!

Dinner ended at 6ish and babe, her man and us head to Dempsey for a drink. High on wine, chat on old times and in many way, babe got high because she is just soooo glad that her only bro is married! We chatted and drink till late, 11ish i guess and headed back.

The night ended later than we thought!

There are really peeps where i wan to thank ;

Dad and mum – for being so cool at my ROM and i think you both look stunning

Mr and Mrs itchy – omg, i cant do without u both esp itchy! U both calm me down, take lotsa pics and i had itchy to roll my eyes with! Nothing beats having frens at ur wedding where you can feel upmost relax! Nothing i can say to thank you guys enuff. I know how much work had been packed yet work had been shoved aside for me.. me me me me me! Thanks thanks again! Nothing can make me thank you both enought... awwww so fake right?

Ferene – thanks for making my mum and myself soooo glamour!

Weather – thanks for raining before my ROM and not during my ROM

Babe – for asking making sure ur bro bring everything!

MIL – thanks for being always so sweet to meee

DT DX – for being so ong lah

Every frens of mine – for calling and smsing and msning me for all your well wishes!

Muacks!

see! i can be independent!

ciaossu!

dear had been bz with work nowadays. more products to handle and the dumb comex show just makes him busier. i seriously promise to be good... so i had been taking the pte bus home daily and packing my own soup for dinner... hahaha

see! i can be indep too!

been missing gym for a week due to period pain.... grrrrrr i wanna head to gym! i tink i might try going like tomorrow... fri is always quiet...

grouchy

period pain................... sulk sulk sulk..

its me eating non stop again!

i swear i wasyoung sweet and pretty before i knew itchy. i was skinny and slim before itchy start to take her culinary class. when i start to hang out with her, we went to bliss for disgusting food and i still maintain my figure. when she start to move to hazel park, my life change... its non stop good food, best of the best, week after week. i do not need to help, i help myself my staffing my face, and i turn fat! fat fat fat!

i so miss my skinny self! I so hate itchy!

see lah see lah.. this is from itchy's blog... its suppose to be a SIMPLE hi-tea... u call that simple? i gorge again!!

the only work i had done was to lauff during the playback of the fiat viz... hahaha

for the 1st time in my life, i got invite ... an invitation to be bridesmaid! its usually a call / a meet up or a msn message! but i got a real real invitation!

i did plan work... see!!! itchy took pics of my work...

Before and After!

see the perfect work by Iris!

i love nana

i really love nana...

my under-rated darling. who is always there to give me advices, always there to give me "good morning" always there for me and hear me nags and talk to me when in need...

so under-rated... i never appreciate u enough... muacks!

thanks for being always there for me ok???

Helppppppppppppppp!

i dont know which dress to wear!!!

dumb

Feeling dumb at work today. Doing nothing of accounting nature but to do travel booking (everyone is flying!), to following up on some admin thingy and to prepare payment. No-brainer job today. Feeling damn bimbo. How accomplishing can booking air tickets, compare ticketing price, routing schedules and booking hotels be hard? This is supposed to be done by the xmm in my office. Apparently, she made so much wrong booking that my director decides that i am a better person for this job.

So today is net surfing time.

Dear just let news that he is gonna to be busier as many of the sales and product managers left. Hence he is left with many products to handle. Much more than he is currently doing. No more of sending me home from work he says. But he will try to make it cause its his job.. hee hee I sound so spoilt! So i promise him that i will try to learn to be more indep from now on...

Cross fingers

yes yes yes!

yes!
i love my 3 boys
i love daddy mummy
i love my life
i love my work
i love everything!

wooohooo!~

too much errands in a day

woke out at 11am and had to rush to HDB to sign our lease agreement for jadespring.. finally.. after such long long wait we get to sign the lease agreement already. still feeling stone from the late night watching of tvb drama ... i soo drag myself and dear drove us to hdb hub... took our Q number and had to sit by the sofa... not much of the excitement cos it not the 1st time we are there are we draggggggg the long long wait for our house to get ready. babe is more excited with the viewing of punggol sapphire and looking at the flat, she almost wanna slap herself for not getting the unit... we had always tot 5rm flat is of 4 rooms.. till today then we know that it consist of 3 bigger bedrooms instead with a option to build a study room... the other 4room units look really similar to our current purchase and just by looking at them... we hunger for our long wait again... after the signing of many many pages ... we went for a smoke and babe actually told us that there is a showroom! they actually actually built 5rm, 4rm, 3rm and 2rm within the hdb hub itself! sooo cool! we head straight up there and went up to the 4rm.. wow! wow woo us! the floor area is 90m sq and it seriously seems big... guess its due to the ID of the house... so ours being 97m sq, should be slightly bigger... love the idea of the whole house.. not that bad!! the more we tour the flat, the more we itch for our 4rm to come quick...  

head off to fort canning after that to view places where we can hold our makan for our werid timing... decide on the chinese food at legends ... although the restaurant is only open at 6.30pm.. the lady was nice enough to let me have the room at 4.30 and open the place just for us. so nice of them.. they could not cfm till 6pm so we decide to head to paragon and taka to check out the places... dear wants presentable place.. so imperial restaurant is KIV till legends call.. 

went to people's park to book our bintan trip... so 1 thing down!

going there on 5 sep morning and heading back in the afternoon on sun.. mon on leave to nua with the kids... wahahaha 

legends called at 6 to cfm that their chef is willing to cook for us... wahahaha dad nv like to drive around so guess its really a good place to hang out! best part, we got the whole place to ourselves lah..

so now we got everything done up... so phewww!! the last part is flowers for hand bouquet... planning to head to 85 market on sat for our flowers...

lucky in love...

been following up on blogs of a few friends. some close ones. some whom i do not know at all yet being a slient reader.reading how many are recovering from heart break, i guess i am lucky that things in my life turn out great.i had my shares of sucky men. most hurt me while i hurt some, after all the pain, i had thought that things will never tun out good again.planning to survive the rest of my life with frens, drinks and dt.. now threw away the drinking, i got dt, dx and a hubby to be where i would be with always.i hope all these dont end.. i really hope so..

not much time!

went praying dear's dad and relatives on sat morning... think i woke up too early hence had to spend the rest of the morning in stone mode. the later part of the afternoon were spent at his cousin's for fortune telling... surprisingly, both his and my fate are very similar. almost the same in many aspects. his cousin says its because we are fated to be husband and wife and judging from our fate, we had a phase in my forties and his fifties where we might sink into a depressing stage and we might be in a different stage of life. nothing to do with 3rd party but the way we communicate. a new form of communication might happen. and during our forties, we will be in a stage of change properties in many hands. good or bad no one will know till the day come. she also told us that we will have 1 to 2 kids... kids of strong character.. which is a combination of my stubborn-ness and his bad temper. i guess my nightmare came thru of creating monsters!! eeeeeeeeks! we are suppose to be enjoying our golden years together ... at least a good sign. one thing fun where she pointed out is me better in logistic line. we did not tell her that daddy is in that industry and she pointed it out to me! scary!! we will just see how things go i guess.

ending the meet up at 5, i felt sick. giddiness and puking. we decide to drive back and he bathe xiong xiong... dear even brush that notti boy of ours... not bad of being a good dad i suppose.. i spent the night snoring through and waking up for the occasional stir... 

dear do not need to work today.. lucky him! coy gave him a day off for the national day holiday... but i got a extra day in my listing. hence i had to head back to work. the 1st time heading to work on my own. without dear driving me.. i had to squeeze the pack bus and mrt.. so grrr.... i miss car ride.... lolz. 

at least on the bright side, there is no need for work tomorrow as i got the leave to sign the lease agreement for our yishun BTO... finally! a chance to sign the lease agreement for jade spring.. the much waited and anticipated wait ...  wonder how many more years will the building be up? 

since we are bringing the kids for grooming at the end of this mth, we might head to the green land and see how things goes...  hope they had started though...

since i was hardworking enough, i did a timeline till our ROM... after its done.. omg... we got less than a mth left! hi tea location is still pending.. no flowers and we had not book bintan trip... babe always says that we are sooo bo chap.. lolz.. i hate to agree on that... guess tml we have to be abit hardworking... to source for all the things..... 

boooo

dear dear did not wipe my hair dry for me for 2 days already...

sulk!

when life changes

ever since the "prepare for marriage" happens, i found that i got lesser and lesser times for friends... feeling guilty as ever, i am now putting in effort to meet friends.. people whom i love and hang out with and people who care for me... when life changes from single to attached. when life changes from attached to be married, the amount of outings actually reduces. inverse relationship i believe.. lolz! see! i even have got an equation for that!

the recent planning in ROM is kinda driving me nuts. not exactly difficult but i just had planning. planning for timing, planning for events and planning for everyone. i am the kind who goes with the flow and to do things i wish. lucky for me, dear puts in effort to do part of the work. everything is done up except for the idiot meal part. my timing is 3.20pm... should be hi-tea to follow right? except not much places open for hi tea at late afternoon on a thursday.. boo! 

any help is appreciated ok? pls pls... suggestions!!! i dont think i am the capable kind of person who can plan the whole ROM myself... so pls...... ideas ok????? dim sum at late afternoon... tell me where... i am thinking of ;

-din tai feng

-crystal jade

-yum cha

we are just so lost!!! 

Chef E rocks!

Ended the short weekend with good food at itchy’s place. Reached yishun at 5ish and up we went to the home of chef E. the smell is overwhelming… got us hungry at the sight of all the cooking… jo and jeff were there already.. helping out. Elaine was carrying doudou not letting him down.. zzzz .. when dou saw dt dx, you could see the happiness in his eyes! Lol! No matter what dx did, dou jus went for it.. playing with him and letting dx do his lion dance.. lolz! The only help that I had provided is to eat. Eat eat eat eat eat…. That’s the only thing that I am doing. Leaving the rest of the decent and dirty job with jo and itchy…! I am soooo unhelpful… what to do? I feel like a bull in the chinashop wherever I am in the kitchen. I could never never feel comfortable doing chores in the kitchen. Even with dear, he is always the one helping and cleaning up. Never me. Lolz.
Dou’s papa arrived slightly later and comes josie and her bf… that pretty auntie even had to arrive fashionably late and looking pretty..! boooo! CL and her hubby pop by later.. 1st time seeing them though but nonetheless, everyone click nicely…
Dx became the centre of attraction with everyone trying to dognap him… I wonder why.. that spoilt brat, so notti and spoilt, still so wanted by many… he is sooo fake! Lol
The star of the day are the food… omg… I drooled just thinking back what I had eaten! Risotto ( I never like rice but I had scoops and scoops 10/10), cod fish pastry (its 9/10) , potatos (9/10) and the all time fave, tiramisu (20/10) the dinner for today is like 10/10! None of my friends could cook as well as itchy and also none could cook soooo perfectly!
Had to carry myself home after staffing my face and shamelessly dabao… but I don’t care! Cause the food is sooo damn yummy!! Chef E rocks!

see how shag my boys are..

palawan!

Its Thursday! But nothing feels like it as it the qtrly recreation for our coy.. its my turn to plan we decide to head down for an afternoon of beach and sunshine and rain at Palawan beach! My team is of Marls and Ed… both members whom I had worked closely with before. Although it’s the 1st time planning, all went well! Ed and myself were kinda last min kinda persons and marls is the proactive, ks type. Lucky for us, with members so balanced, we had the games and budget planned well. All of us head off to Palawan in a taxi and due to the bright sunshine, many of us got into the mood to play.
With winners out from our game play, we ended the games at 4.30 pm. Giving everyone an hr and half for washing up. Many of us decided to stay on for a game of volley ball and continue playing. While the older generation went for washing up, we dragged till the last min, gotten ourselves filled with sand before we decide to unwillingly wash up. The night ended with us heading to vivocity for dinner at a thai restaurant. Seeing how everyone have different taste, our team took pride in preordering the food to suit the taste bud of everyone. So glad for the sporting sprit in all that the day and night ended up really well! I sooo miss the beach!

....... (no topic)

Had not had the chance for my bo liao updates. Dear had been hogging my poor lappy. Making it overworked.
For me, i hod the teebee insteady. For Zelda and for hk series. Which is of cause a better company.
Finally my period has come! After 2 months of period being lost and in pain in office... (which I get to steal the chance to work from home), my period finally come.. i finally bleed. Wahahha! For once i enjoyed the cramp!!! Heard that royal jelly is good to regulate period so dear got me a bottle which is supposed to help. Faithfully taking it now.

Last sat was happening. The meet ups of the family with his mum late for an hour due to the her dressing up! Hence we decide to up our time for our ROM from 3.20pm to 2pm. The dinner was fun! His mum talking to my parents and it ink dad and mum feel more at ease now that they had seen his family.. his mum love my parents so i think there will be another meet up.
The dinner lasted like till 10... all full and stuffed up our face... lolz!

Went for ah ma’s prayers for her 1 year.. started at 9am and by the time it ended, its really late... too much kneeling! Dear had to help out alot alot... got us both so shag that we KO once we went back! Even tennis is not so crazy!

Hmm now to set me thinking... i think i am busier on babe’s rom than mine... even mine, i did not worry or do so much things... i guess its always easier and less stress up to plan to somebody...

thankful

visited itchy new house today!!! omg .... its sooo pretty!!! the concept is pretty, the furnishing is pretty, everything is pretty!! the only complain is the lousy workmanship! the lousy paint work and the lousy lousy paintwork... lolz.. besides that its purfect!! good job itchy!!
DT make the place like his own, jumping onto bed and sofa and going to the toilet to pee... way before bbb do that!! wahahaha
ate dinner at itchy's island.. OMG! its so magazine-ish! i love the high stool.. at least my big butt would not feel like its falling off!
jo and jeff arrive abit later, but being having to go to movie late in the night, we had to leave them within 10 mins... anyway, they did not want to sayang my dx.. booooooooooo wahahaha

when driving home, dear drove pass our green green land... finally, there are signs of having work to be done!! woohoo!! glad that its finally starting..

on the way back, i was really thankful for the good things that had happen in my life. if there is a GOD up there, i am thankful and i say my prayers daily.. for the good i had done, the bad i had done and the wonder things i have and still having in return...
thank you...

i do... 11/07/08

Had been nagging to dear about me not getting a “will u marry me?” no flowers, no ring.. no proposal.. I had been feeling sore about it and finding chances to “nag” for the lack of it.

Today he took me by surprise!

It’s the usual “lets go home for dinner” Friday. Nothing special or spectacular. Looking forward to homecook food by mummy… reached home and help out to lay the food on the tables, as I wanted to put a spoonful of rice into my mouth, dear covered my eyes and told me he got something for me! Not my birthday, not our anniversary… in my mind, I was thinking, FINALLY this guy is cooking something for me to eat! He had always claimed to be a good chef, but never lay his hands to cook for me. I thought he is up to something special!

Opened my eyes and I got the shocked of my life!! Flowers in 1 hand, a solitaire in another, down on his knees! I was lost for words! Dear asked, infront of dad and mum, “dear, will you marry me?” OMG! I backed off! Too lost for wonder, wanting to tear, laugh and not sure how to react! I looked around.. mum keep saying” faster lah! Accept leh!!!” I was still lost! I think I said “yes” omg… I remember he kissed me, I remembered we kissed and I cant remember much!! All too sudden, too much of a surprise and too lovely a surprise!!

Dear ‘s voice trembled when asking, I was too lost for words.. till now, since 8 hrs had passed, I am still shocked.. still surprised!!

Dear roped in kelvin , mum, dad and babe for this huge event! Kelvin and mum for the flowers to reach my place.. dad for all the point of contact and babe for choosing the perfect ring and having it fit me!

I am so shamelessly bliss!

I love the name of the solitaire, its True Love from SK… true love… awww…. With a cert attached to it, I don’t think it’s cheap. The cut is pretty and the ring fits perfectly.

Omg… I am still in surprise!!

I am feeling sooo shamelessly in love…

where my ring from... hee

my ring and flowers from him... sooo sweet!

bands!

finally! after rounds of shopping, rounds of gazing.. we settle on the celestials from goldheart! phew!!
comparing the price and diamond, dear felt that having the diamond is more worthwhile.. so hence i got a bigger diamond... lolz..

now jus waiting to collect the prized piece...

am i pampered?

Went shopping with kb today!! Sad that vern baby cant make it... boooooooo! Make me sooo look forward to seeing u and u did not turn up!!

Head off to cityhall for my dress shopping... i am jus sooo glad kb baby is here! She helped me to pick the nicest dress!! Head off to lavender 1st and the shop is sooo pretty! Lotsa nice nice dresses and we saw one that is sooo vern-ish.. yes the word.. its sooo vern! The other dresses are the usual girlish kind... 100% not me... due to my disgusting big boobs... i got prob with most bareback dress.. cant hold up by boobs lah..

While at citylink, dear called and i forced him to drive us to suntec. Head to Daniel yam.. the attitude of the sales auntie suxs... anyway, i did not give them an easy time. Hahaha picked 4 dresses to try and i like a chilli red one and a black and red chongsum one.... dear likes the white venus one which both me and kb don’t quite like... lucky for me, kb stood by my decision.. phew! Girl power!!!!

According to kb, i am beginning to behave spoilt! Am I ???! she said i am pampered, spoilt all roll in one with dear always giving in to me, driving me around and i am behaving like a pampered child!! Booooooooo! Am I ???! not at all right??? Tell me i am not...

wedding plan advance!

went to settle some stuff for our wedding...
we are finally getting into the details already.. phew....

1) date set (wahahaha)

2) location set (at ROM lor)

3)wedding bands more or less confirm... we will most likely be buying this pair... any comments????

went to citigem (the designs are not to what we like) / lee hwa (designs so-so but not as ex as we thought) / sk (worse of all.. cos we dont like anything there) / gold heart ( not as cheap as we thought) / soo kee (not so nice leh). in the end, we decide on this pair after the millons of pairs that we see and forget... its either this or the lee hwa's... we kinda like this more so guess there will be one more look at it...

4) dress... still on the look out... so will be dragging vern and kb to go with me... pls gals... help!!!! so on tues we will be heading to cityhall .. to stamford court and suntec... wish me luck!! made an appt with dressmeup.com on sat for another round of fitting... dear says the dress looks pretty so decide to book me an appt for that.

5) photography and vidz will be done by my itchiest pal and her hubby... wahahaha with good camera skills and can totally rely on them and paying them the min fee and rip it off them! wahahahahaha! see! itchy is sooo multi purpose.. can take my vidz / bitch with me / itchy with me!

6) make up will be done by ferene... she did wonderful wonderful job on itchy time and again.. so i will surely wan her!!! who ever can make itchy so hot is to be head hunted!! i dont wanna look like a drag queen leh...

7) dinner venue are not really fix yet... the places we are planning are Jade at Fullerton / Hua Ting at Orchard hotel / Pine Court at Meritus Mandrain .... come come.. contribute ideas! we are planning to get them to customise a dinner menu for us...

8) short trip away from home... planning to hunt during the natas sales in aug 1 /2 /3 at expo... cant decide between taipei and hokkaido / okinawa ....

9) my guest list is gonna be simple... dear's dad and mum / carina babe and manwin / my parents / mervin and lili / kelvin and gf / itchy and robert (itchy u have to be there so tat there is someone for me to roll my eyes with and to smoke with me when in need and to take my pretty face and make sure i dun have veg in my teeth) / my aunt (maybe) and us of cos! thats like 14 to 15 pax!!!

phew..... wat a long long list and its onli ROM lorrrrrrrr

happy birthday mummy!!!!

its mummy birthday today!!! dad took the day off and went bird park with her. romentic walk by the road, birds and wings by the side... wahhh so lormentic rite? mum loves the idea! last year was sentosa so this year becomes birdpark. despite the busi schedule, dad took the day off and its really sweet!
the bros and their gfs got mummy make-up, dad got her lotsa stuff and dear and me got her earrings... she love love her presents and she even ask dt and dx wat they are going to give her. they fought over, wanting to lay their kisses on my mum.
we met them at west coast for dad's new car collection. a CAMRY!!! dad upgraded from a lorry to a van, to a corolla to a camry. its a pretty colour of greyish silverish blue... lolz... not used to the heavy functions in the new 2 lit car... dad felt lost and wanted dear to be there with him during the collection. the kids could not go in so mum and myself waited in dear's car for dad's new toy... omg.. he drove damn slow lah!
upon reaching home, he spent the next 2 hrs shifting things to his car, touching it and playing with the buttons with dear. so the 2 men were out jus playing with the boys big toy... lolz..
mum was all smiley and happy!! with the presents, the outings and the new car.. ok she is not sooo excited abt the car lah..
head to farmart for dinner as we want something near home so that the kids would not be left alone tooo long, the dinner was tooo filling! too much food!!! and there is still a cake to go!!!
the whole day was filled with fun and joy!!! mum says its the best birthday with all of us bringing out partners and dear and me planning marriage... lolz
and before we all knew it... its like 11pm already!!
headed back home cos DT was really grouchy!! ong lah ong lah!

family pic!! been a long long timeee...

happy birthday mummy!

see!!! birthday gal soooo happy!

office move!

yes! office is moving to a new location! from shenton way to shenton way... lolz!! the whole week was packed bz with the packing and many other things like helping to co-ordinate the move.

my office took 4 wks for the whole completion.. or was it 3 wks plus but itchy's place is still pending move. still next wk... every wk i ask her, its next wk... so ""ITCHY!! when u moving lah!!!""

if i were her, i would have flared up already... booo!! lucky for us, its to our benefit that we manage a deal from the good old HDB... no need to go through all these ...

For better or woes?

With worldwide increase in the fuel prices, drivers are definitely affected badly.
Sympathies from other counties eg. Indonesia, china, Malaysia and many other countries had subdue the nations with the ability to reimburse the hike through cash rebates or reduced fuel hike or absorbing the fuel hike. In countries where its deemed to have riots and where its deemed to be unsafe, the least the government do is to pacify the people.
In Singapore, rather than to pacify the nation, to reimburse us, we had to face a higher fee. Higher fuel price hit, no pity yet we had to face more gantries, higher parking fees and a even higher fuel rate.

Is this fair? Or have we grown so coward that we had to endure the over laps of price increase, one layer after another? Or have our government take us for granted that they deemed its right to ride the hike on us and to push us further?
Don’t tell me about public transport; don’t try to advise me the usage. I have 2 dogs, tell me the pros of public transport and convince me to switch over.

Woes and helpless

Been sick... bad one

been badly coughing for the past 2 weeks... look like crap and seems like i had highly infected my whole office... everyone hates meeee booo!!

went to the doc and was told to stay away from work for 2 days... i had the plans to work from home but the med jus makes me sleepy.... snore....
spent the whole day and night sleeping. the med is doing wonders i muz say, making me doing nothing but dizzy the whole time.

the boys are really happy for mummy to be at home cos its "come out and play the whole day" time. dx is the happiest! irritating kor kor all the way and got snap.. but he enjoyed it lah, the itchy boy.

for concern peeps, i had not start my rom preparations at all! my boobs are too huge to fit into those dresses and it suxs lah! i am sooo grouchy! we are planning a short getaway right after the dinner thingy so there are lotsa of things to get. lucky i got my photo / vidz and make up already. the rest are in a blur... even picking dinner venue is sooo diffcult! i tink we are jus plain lazy. but its really a chore...